A Stress Free Guide from “Yes” to “I Do”
- Lauren Grimes
- Jan 21
- 2 min read
Planning your wedding is not just about picking a date and saying yes to the dress. It is about being prepared so that when your big day comes, you can sit back and enjoy all your hard work. While most brides expect the big decisions, it is the pacing of it all that often catches them off guard. This bridal timeline breaks down what to focus on and when so that nothing feels rushed or overwhelming. Think of it as your behind-the-scenes guide to staying organized and fully present from engagement to “I Do.”
12+ Months Before
Celebrate your engagement and take engagement photos
Set a realistic budget
Create a guest list
Tour and book your venue(s)
Choose your wedding date
10-11 Months Before
Book key vendors: photographer, caterer, band/DJ
Say yes to the dress (and schedule alterations)
Reserve hotel room blocks for guests
8-9 Months Before
Finalize your wedding party
Send save-the-dates
Begin planning your honeymoon
Research rentals, florals, and décor
Start thinking about color palette and design details
6-7 Months Before
Order wedding invitations
Schedule dress fittings
Choose bridesmaid dresses
Plan ceremony details
Book hair and makeup artists
4-5 Months Before
Finalize menu selections and cake design
Select linens, rentals, and décor
Plan rehearsal dinner
3 Months Before
Send formal invitations
Finalize ceremony music and readings
Schedule hair and makeup trial
Order wedding favors
Confirm honeymoon travel details
1-2 Months Before
Track RSVPs and follow up
Finalize seating chart
Obtain marriage license
Confirm timelines with all vendors
Final dress fitting
2 Weeks Before
Confirm final guest count with caterer
Create wedding day emergency kit
Share final timeline with wedding party
Write vows
1 Week Before
Pick up dress
Break in wedding shoes
Pack for honeymoon
Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
Relax, hydrate, and enjoy the moment
Wedding Day
Eat a good breakfast
Hair and makeup
Get ready to spend forever with your person
